ARFism: Shit Hearing People Say to Deaf and Hard of Hearing People:

elliotthebrave:

  • “Wow, I never would have known you are deaf!”
  • “You don’t look deaf.”
  • “She was so beautiful, you would have not known she was deaf.”
  • “What’s reading braille like?”
  • “Can you have children?”
  • “You speak so well!”
  • “You don’t sound like a deaf person.”

Personally I’m not Deaf (Sometimes I wish I was! Hearing people annoy me.) Not even H.O.H, perfect hearing. But I have a deaf furbaby. My dog, Castiel, is deaf. I’ve had people tell me “oh he can hear me he looked at me!” “Erm…you waved your hands, he saw you so he looked!”
I know it’s not the same as being deaf or having a child who is deaf or HoH. My partner is HoH, I couldn’t imagine what my partner goes though on a daily basis.
I get a good percentage of these towards my dog! (I usually tell my deaf/ally/interpreter friends “my dog has a sign name, and is more in the Deaf culture then I’ll ever be!”)

(Source: thatdeafchick)

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    “You’re deaf.” *tearfully* “God bless you.” ALL THE FUCKING TIME Fuck you, deep South. “Can I wear your hearing aid?”...
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    hahahaha!! yeah, people are dumb. but i’d take a million “really? you have to ask that?” questions over sitting in...
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    confusing braille for being related to deafness AHAHAHA
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    I don’t even know. Probably because they’re like. “How can you hear your mate during sex?” or “How can you hear the baby...
  9. squishysound reblogged this from cakemeister and added:
    No, you actually hear with your penis/vagina. It explains a lot, doesn’t it?
  10. cakemeister reblogged this from tzadikt and added:
    those ones seem to be the absolute stupidest. the rest are really ignorant (like the braille one; mixing up loss of...
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    one of my students in my ochem class is legally deaf. it’s actually helped my stuttering a bit because I have to pay...
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    “What’s reading braille like?” what I don’t even
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  15. misohead reblogged this from maxmovinghands and added:
    … oh my god. how could anyone think any of these things are appropriate to say at all especially these
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    Isn’t it so sad that Beethoven / Helen Keller / etc lost their hearing??? Don’t you ever wish you were hearing? OMG TELL...
  17. thelettereth reblogged this from thatdeafchick and added:
    and !@@#$%&?”...choose between being...or blind, I’d...
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    “What’s reading braille like?” WHAT EVEN
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    Can…you…have…children… what.
  20. miss-badass-applejack reblogged this from weloveasl and added:
    So many of these things...it’s both funny...sad ((sad as in...
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  23. whitedane reblogged this from arfism and added:
    Personally I’m not Deaf (Sometimes I wish I was! Hearing people annoy me.) Not even H.O.H, perfect hearing. But I
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  25. lilylunastardust reblogged this from raggedyanndy and added:
    OMG YES like 1/3...these! The Helen Keller one so often. I cannot tell
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    bluh 99% of the deaf people I meet are customers at work and so thankfully I don’t even get much of an opportunity to...
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    Reading some of these things made me feel like I was crumbling into a smoldering pile on the floor, sort of the...
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